Saima Ikram
You might have reached a point where you tried and pushed hard but nothing actually worked. Maybe you tried hard to run the business you set up many years ago or maybe you tried to get the job you had always dreamed of. It is like running up a never-ending hill which is being pelted by snowballs but you keep tripping over.
But just because we don’t achieve your goals as you want does not mean it isn’t working at all. The world gets tough and you feel like giving up as the best option. But whenever a myriad of reasons come to your mind to give up, following are the few things that can help you overcome the fear of not being able to accomplish your goals.
Create a plan:
You fail to think more because you don’t a plan to work on when the times are tough. Therefore, when you are set to complete your goals then create a plan. Divide the tasks into manageable steps and keep track of your own progress. There might be stuff that makes you frustrated or angry but remember, there are going to be obstacles in your way. You should only be able to think of creative solutions for them and move forward with your efforts.
Don’t worry about the small stuff:
When you worry about each and everything during the process of reaching your goals, you get stressed. This makes you think of giving up instead of making more efforts. Focus on things that are important and make all your efforts to get those things done. Do not sweat the small stuff as it will only be a waste of your energy and time.
Stay connected to positive people:
Your efforts and achievements depend a lot on the people who live around you. Stay connected to the people who encourage you to keep going forward. These should be the people who actually believe in you and can hold you accountable for things you say you want to accomplish.
Remain inspired:
When you will understand the true meaning of inspiration, motivation will not be as much needed as you think. Inspiration will give you the reason for whatever you have in mind and will show that it may be tough but not impossible. Therefore, always stay inspired and you become a better version of your own self.
Realize your own abilities:
It is easy to give up when you are not aware of your own abilities. When you give up, you prevent yourself from having the opportunity to live a fulfilling life. Instead, if you use all your energy to explore the areas that seem impossible, you will get to know your strengths and weaknesses. Your strengths will help you achieve your goals and you can learn throughout the journey to improve your weaknesses.
Have a greater understanding of your efforts:
Look at your efforts from every perspective and understand why you are you making the efforts. In order to stay focused on the tasks, reevaluate our goals and understand the purpose behind. Having a clear understanding of the purpose you have will help you achieve your goals without letting you give up at any stage.
