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You are exposed to a multitude of ideas and belief systems every day. There are so many things that you associate yourself with and determine your own path of success. But if you do not define success for yourself then you subconsciously succumb to the definition of success that is set by the society. This makes you climb the ladder towards what you think success is but as you reach to the top, you realize that the ladder was leaned up against a wrong wall and you remain unsatisfied. When you don’t attain fulfilment in life, you hit the ultimate failure.
You need to be very clear about your future and determine your success with your own vision. Following are the few factors that determine the extent of your success in real life:
Setting standards:
In order to achieve your goals, you set some kind of standards. These standards determine to what extent you will go to achieve what you want. Your standards determine everything from your financial situation to your way of living. You just need to realize where you want yourself to be. In order to achieve success, turn your standards into irrefutable ones.
Growth mindset:
When you have a fixed mindset, you think your abilities are limited and you cannot achieve more no matter what you do. You can improve only when you have a growth mindset. A growth mindset helps you to see challenges as a learning experience and a way to explore new opportunities.
Energy levels:
Your energy level determines the extent you are able to follow your own plans to achieve your short-term or long-term goals. In order to achieve more, you need to have greater energy levels. You need to be very careful about the activities or habits that drain your energy and remove them from your life.
Skillset:
According to Elon Musk, modern education is obsolete because it fails to equip the younger generation with skills that are crucial for thriving in the technological world. You need to achieve skills that are relevant for future jobs and you cannot develop them at once, work on them every single day.
A clear vision:
You need to have a clear vision of what the end results of your efforts would be. Your every step should be carefully taken towards the destination you want to be and this can only happen if you have a clear vision.
Relationships:
It is no doubt that you are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with, so, you need to be very careful with your relationships. Ask yourself the questions that what kind of impact are your relationships may it be family or friends are having on you. It is because you subconsciously pick up their ideas, habits, and even beliefs. Therefore, surround yourself with people with whom you find your true destiny because if you hang out with five millionaires, then you will be the sixth one yourself.
