Hajra Naz
You never know what surprise awaits you in order to move forward in life you must know the direction you are headed at. Your path merely serves as a guide to your future and life ultimately unfolds in perpetual moments. Every single thought or emotion creates the future in the present moment. In order to successfully navigate your life; you need to be conscious and aware of the present moment. It is because the thoughts and decisions you make in the present moment influence your future to a greater extent.
Following are the few steps towards creating and navigating the future you desire:
Be true to yourself:
It is very important to follow what feels good to you. For navigating your life successfully, it is important live on the terms you think are the best. Don’t pay attention to how others want you to be.
Don’t say bad things about others:
Saying bad things about others creates negative energy in your body and makes you less likable among people. Therefore, don’t gossip and respect yourself and others.
Lay the inner core/foundation:
You cannot have strength from artificial means because the only way to make yourself stronger is by laying a strong inner foundation. Be kind to yourself and speak in a positive manner. By focusing on your strengths regularly, you will enhance your external world immensely.
Don’t compare:
Once you indulge in comparing yourself with others, you feel deprived. You become depressed about your own situation while looking at how other people live and how much they own. It is better to focus on your own life instead of others and it will bring more happiness into your life.
Stay in the present moment:
It is best to live in the best moment and not to think about the past or your future. The present moment is what the reality is and you need to make it better. It is because everything good you do now will bring your happiness and you will be able to enjoy it.
Don’t take things personally:
There are so many things that happen in life that have very little to do with yourself. Learn to give yourself the benefit of doubt and don’t take things personally.
Create goals:
It is important to set goals in order to have a general direction. It is because when life gets tough, goals in place provide you with a structure and keep you on track.
Don’t dream worst-case scenarios:
When you include catastrophism in your situations, it makes you more anxious, and depressed and increases your suffering. Therefore, don’t think of the worst-case scenarios and deal with things as they present themselves.
